Okay, guys, great advice, but I have several "how to" and "why" questions.
First, what is the purpose of cutting out parts of the tenon? Can't I just leave the tenon full length? Is there a movement issue here? Yes, there is a reason, although I can't remember the exact details w/o going back to the books. I think it has to do w/ weakening the breadboard end if you take out that much wood. For the two outside mortises, you want to leave them a little wider than the tenons to allow for wood movement. You can make the center one a fairly snug fit.
Second, I'm thinking of using a plunge router with 3/8" spiral upcut. Is that a problem versus drilling with a Forstner? I used a 1/4" spiral upcut bit in my router table to make the mortises. It worked fine. Just have to make it in several passes, going a little deeper each time. My mortise depth was 2". The breadboard end was 3" wide.
Third. How critical is ensuring the elongation of the outer two pins is exactly parallel to the end? I'm thinking I need to use a guide bar set parallel for the elongate action. Is this overkill? This is fairly critical! If the elongation angled into or away from the table, when the top expanded and contracted, it would either move the end away from or into the table. You want it to remain exactly parallel to the table for a nice tight fit.
Fourth. Do I really need to glue the tips of the outer pins? I'm going to need to clamp the breadboard to the table to close up the gap, and it seems that installing the pins under tension would adequately hold them in place. I always glue mine. W/ the top and end moving against each other, and the pin moving in a different direction, you can't rely on tension to keep everything tight. When you install the pins, do it from the underside. Push the pin through until it just exits the other (top) side. Then put a drop of glue on the shaft of the pin and drive it in another 1/8 -1/4". This keeps the glue from sealing the tenon to the mortise, which is a definite no-no on the two outer tenons. When the glue dries, use a flush-cut saw to trim it off. This puts any glue smear on the underside of the table, not the top.
Fifth.... Ain't NCWW such a great place. AMEN!!! Sorry I've been away, it's great to be back.