This "sliding" can also occur with a table saw miter gauge (even an Incra, Osborne, etc), so an abrasive surface on the fence helps with that also.
Actually, with respect to the
Incra 1000SE/HD (which is what I own),
the 'sliding' described above
is not an issue when utilizing the fence stops. There is no need for an abrasive to be attached to the fence in normal operation (incl. miters). For cuts longer than the primary fence, the end portion telescopes out for extended lengths of 30+", so the stop can still be properly engaged.
It can be an issue if you dont bother to set the stop(s), but it is my normal SOP to secure each board against the stop to ensure consistent part lengths -- why invest in a good miter gauge/fence if not to take advantage of its capabilities. Accurate miters only fit together properly when the individual sides are of uniform length!
I know some consider these aftermarket miter gauge/fence setups to be costly, but they can often be found on sale for considerably less (the Incra 1000SE can often be found for as little as $100-120). If you routinely cut angles with your miter gauge, then a good quality miter gauge can be a lifesaver. Added features like builtin fence stop [blocks] and telescoping fences for longer cuts help ensure uniform parts lengths -- even for 90deg crosscuts.
The repeatable accuracy of these miter gauges can also be a lifesaver if you accidentally ruin a prior workpiece and need to create a duplicate part -- the repeatability allows you to create a perfect replacement piece without a lot of fuss or setup time.
For those who prefer to build jigs instead, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that -- there are a lot of wonderful jig designs out there these days. Some of us don't have a lot of room for storing jigs and the functionality provided by these commercial miter gauges fill a niche that would typically be filled by numerous individual jigs.
Just my $0.02