I doubt you will get a paper template, I never have. So if you are going with inset doors and a face frame then make sure you order hinges for that combo. Alternatively you could glue a block of wood to the inside of the face frame to make a flush surface to mount the usual frameless type hinge plates. Here is a photo of some hinges I used for a face frame with inset doors.
As far as the doors go with the 35mm cup hole, like Red said, use a board of the same thickness as the door and make several cup holes along it with different setbacks. At 2mm, 3mm, 4mm, 5mm. and see what works best. I actually measure from the center of the hole to the edge, so I mark a spot for the center spur of the Forstner at 20mm, 22mm, 23mm, 24mm etc.