The wife and I would like to plan a get together at our place in Sanford. It's about 35 minutes from Cary and 30 minutes from Fayettville. The way we've done these in the past is that everyone brings a side dish or desert, or if you want to cook something on the grill bring it, I'll probably make a large pot of New Mexico style chili. Bring any adult beverages you want, beers, etc. We'll have soda's and stuff for the non drinkers. We can hang out on the back deck and swap lies, or inside the house and/or shop. Bring your families and let's have a great time. I will post directions when we get closer to the date.